[NewFeature]Support dp multi api server && Fix some bug in mixed ep && merge develop (#3598)

* [Feature] update ep

* fix ci

* fix ci

* fix ci

* fix ci

* fix ci

* fix ci

* fix ci

* fix queue ports idx

* fix ci

* fix ci

* fix ci

* fix ci

* fix ci

* fix ci

* fix ci

* fix ci

* Update engine.py

* fix ci

* fix some bug in mixed ep

* add server fix and op fix

* rm some log

* fix code style

* ltd fix

* fix

* fix

* fix some bug

* fix bug

* fix bug

* fix style

* Update config.py

* Update splitwise_connector.py

* Update cache_messager.py

* Update __init__.py

* merge and fix

* Update engine.py

* Update common_engine.py

* Update run_ci_xpu.sh

* Update ernie_processor.py

* Update ernie_processor.py

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Co-authored-by: ltd0924 <ltd0924@sina.com>
Co-authored-by: ltd0924 <32387785+ltd0924@users.noreply.github.com>

fastdeploy/inter_communicator/ipc_signal.py

@@ -18,6 +18,8 @@ from multiprocessing.shared_memory import SharedMemory
 
 import numpy as np
 
+from fastdeploy.utils import llm_logger
+
 
 def shared_memory_exists(name: str) -> bool:
     """Check if a shared memory block with the given name exists.
@@ -35,7 +37,7 @@ def shared_memory_exists(name: str) -> bool:
     except FileNotFoundError:
         return False
     except Exception as e:
-        print(f"Unexpected error: {e}")
+        llm_logger.error(f"Unexpected error: {e}")
         return False
 
 
@@ -78,7 +80,9 @@ class IPCSignal:
             name = name + f".{suffix}"
 
         if create:
-            assert not shared_memory_exists(name), f"ShareMemory: {name} already exists"
+            if shared_memory_exists(name):
+                llm_logger.warning(f"ShareMemory: {name} already exists, delete it")
+                SharedMemory(name=name, create=False).unlink()
             self.shm = SharedMemory(create=True, size=array.nbytes, name=name)
             self.value: np.ndarray = np.ndarray(array.shape, dtype=array.dtype, buffer=self.shm.buf)
             self.value[:] = array  # Initialize with input array data