[Executor] Default use CUDAGraph (#3594)

* add start intercept

* Adjustment GraphOptConfig

* pre-commit

* default use cudagraph

* set default value

* default use cuda graph

* pre-commit

* fix test case bug

* disable rl

* fix moba attention

* only support gpu

* Temporarily disable PD Disaggregation

* set max_num_seqs of test case as 1

* set max_num_seqs and temperature

* fix max_num_batched_tokens bug

* close cuda graph

* success run wint2

* profile run with max_num_batched_tokens

* 1.add c++ memchecker 2.success run wint2

* updatee a800 yaml

* update docs

* 1. delete check 2. fix plas attn test case

* default use use_unique_memory_pool

* add try-except for warmup

* ban mtp, mm, rl

* fix test case mock

* fix ci bug

* fix form_model_get_output_topp0 bug

* fix ci bug

* refine deepseek ci

* refine code

* Disable PD

* fix sot yaml

docs/zh/parameters.md

@@ -35,9 +35,9 @@
 | ```long_prefill_token_threshold``` | `int`       | 开启Chunked Prefill时，请求Token数超过此值的请求被视为长请求，默认为max_model_len*0.04 |
 | ```static_decode_blocks```         | `int`       | 推理过程中，每条请求强制从Prefill的KVCache分配对应块数给Decode使用，默认2|
 | ```reasoning_parser```             | `str`       | 指定要使用的推理解析器，以便从模型输出中提取推理内容 |
-| ```use_cudagraph```                | `bool`      | 是否使用cuda graph，默认False。开启前建议仔细阅读  [graph_optimization.md](./features/graph_optimization.md)，在多卡场景需要同时开启 Custom all-reduce。 |
-| ```graph_optimization_config```    | `dict[str]`       | 可以配置计算图优化相关的参数，默认值为'{"use_cudagraph":false, "graph_opt_level":0, "cudagraph_capture_sizes": null }'，详细说明参考 [graph_optimization.md](./features/graph_optimization.md)|
-| ```enable_custom_all_reduce```     | `bool`      | 开启Custom all-reduce，默认False |
+| ```use_cudagraph```                | `bool`      | __[已废弃]__ 2.3版本开始 CUDAGraph 默认开启，详细说明参考 [graph_optimization.md](./features/graph_optimization.md) |
+| ```graph_optimization_config```    | `dict[str]`       | 可以配置计算图优化相关的参数，默认值为'{"use_cudagraph":true, "graph_opt_level":0}'，详细说明参考 [graph_optimization.md](./features/graph_optimization.md)|
+| ```disable_custom_all_reduce```     | `bool`      | 关闭Custom all-reduce，默认False |
 | ```splitwise_role```               | `str`       | 是否开启splitwise推理，默认值mixed， 支持参数为["mixed", "decode", "prefill"] |
 | ```innode_prefill_ports```         | `str`       | prefill 实例内部引擎启动端口 （仅单机PD分离需要），默认值None |
 | ```guided_decoding_backend```      | `str`       | 指定要使用的guided decoding后端，支持 `auto`、`xgrammar`、`off`, 默认为 `off` |